Obey Me - A deluxe 10-piece BDSM experience in a velvet-lined case

How Our Sizing Works

Most of our pieces are sold as sets, which means the top and bottom come together in one size.

Because of this, not every style will suit every body perfectly — and that’s completely normal.

To make sizing more flexible, many of our styles include:

• adjustable straps for bust support
• stretch fabrics that move with your body
• sliders or adjustable details on briefs and G-strings to help customise the fit

If you need a little more room through the bust, it’s often best to size up — the adjustable features usually allow you to bring the rest of the fit in where needed.

Fit isn’t just about the size on the label — it’s about how the piece sits and adjusts to your body.

📏 Size Guide

International Size Conversion

Shopping internationally? Here’s a simple size conversion guide.

📐 How to Measure

Underbust
Measure around your ribcage, just under your bust. Keep the tape firm but not tight.

Bust
Measure around the fullest part of your bust. Keep the tape level and relaxed.

Use these measurements as a guide — not a rule.

What a Good Fit Should Feel Like

A well-fitting piece should:

• sit flat against your body without digging in
• feel supportive without feeling tight
• stay in place without needing adjustment
• feel comfortable enough to forget you’re wearing it

If something feels off, it usually is.

Small issues — like straps digging in or fabric sitting wrong — are usually signs the fit isn’t quite right.

If You’re Between Sizes

Go with the size that:

• feels more comfortable
• sits more smoothly
• doesn’t require constant adjusting

There’s no “perfect” number — only what works best on your body.

If Your Body Has Changed

Bodies change — and lingerie should work with that, not against it.

If your shape has shifted (post-baby, weight changes, or just over time), focus less on your old size and more on how pieces:

• sit
• support
• move with you

If you’re unsure where to start, styles from our Contour Collection are designed to be easier to fit and flatter your shape.

🤍 Still Not Sure?

If you’re unsure about sizing, you’re not expected to figure it out alone.

You’re always welcome to get in touch — Tamara can help guide you based on your shape, what you’re looking for, and how different styles tend to fit.

If your local or near to the Sunshine Coast, QLD,  book a private fitting.

Tamara is also available for 15min zoom virtual fittings.

 More Guidance to Help You Find the Right Fit

• Read → How to Choose Lingerie That Fits
• Explore → Multi - Piece Lingerie
• Book → Private Fittings
  
• Our Guarantee → 45 day, easy returns

PU Leather Boxed Set

• Wipe box and items with a damp cloth after use.
• Dry flat in the shade.
• Store fully dry in the box.

Postage and Shipping 

All orders made before 2pm AEST are shipped the same day in sustainable and discrete packaging.

🇦🇺 Australia
We use Australia Post for all deliveries within Australia (up to 5 kg).

Standard Shipping (orders under $150) — Flat Rate $10

Standard Shipping (orders $150 and over) — FREE

Express Shipping — Flat Rate $15

🇳🇿 New Zealand
Flat rates apply to parcels up to 5 kg.

Standard Shipping (orders under $200) — $15

Standard Shipping (orders $200) — FREE

Express Shipping Flat Rate — $27

International:

• Canada - $27
• UK and Europe - $33.50

🇺🇸 U.S. Customers – Please Read Before Ordering

We’re so excited to send our lingerie your way — but due to U.S. Customs regulations, all parcels are shipped DDU (Delivered Duty Unpaid).

This means:

• You may be charged import duties or customs fees by U.S. Customs when your parcel arrives.
• These fees are not collected by us and are the responsibility of the buyer.
• Charge can vary depending on the value of goods and may be affected by recent tariff changes on apparel and lingerie manufactured in China.

💰 How much might U.S. duties cost?

Import duties and taxes are set by U.S. Customs and depend on the value and type of items you order.

Most customers report paying between USD $10–$40, but some orders may incur higher fees due to recent tariff changes on lingerie and apparel.

These charges are not collected by us and must be paid directly to U.S. Customs or the carrier on delivery.

We will always declare items clearly and legally, and we’re here to help if you have any questions before ordering.

All orders dispatched from Sunshine Coast, Queensland, Australia

Something not quite right? Never mind - we have an easy to use returns portal

The Obey Me set can only be returned if in full packaging and items are unused.

Full Priced Items - return with 45 days for exchange, credit or refund

Sale items - return within 14 days for exchange or credit.

View our full returns policy.